Life is moving along fine enough. And then—suddenly— often at a time when we are not prepared to deal with it, someThing happens. And....not according to our plan. As the old adage reminds us: “Life happens while we are busy making other plans.” We don’t tend to spend much time thinking about what we don’t know. And in many ways, that makes sense. But when it comes to growing older—our health, living arrangements, finances, and the important documents that guide our care and